Older men insecure dating younger women

03-Nov-2017 09:21

My sister went to grab a drink and I stayed, dancing to Rhianna's song probably exactly like this; On her way to the bar my sister runs into Coco Lover and says, "Hey, why aren't you dancing with my sister?" He responded by saying "Oh, I want her to get to know my friends".My sister found me a few minutes later and told me the conversation that just took place.I was half mortified, half entertained that this guy actually thinks he can put me, or any other girl into a category such as that shallow one.At one my jobs (I won't reveal which one), I found myself crushing on a younger guy. However, I think most can attest to this, that no matter where you work, there is always a spark of interest for someone, even if only briefly.I told my roomie about him briefly, and he looked at me and laughed, saying how unfair it was that I would consider not dating someone based off of their age. It happens when you're around them in the workplace and you get to know their personalities on an entirely different level.Or maybe it's the rebellious nature of the "don't date your coworkers," the unspoken rule, that makes it alluring.Months later and I agreed to go on a super innocent date, walked around the city, got a few drinks and talked about our future dreams and aspirations.

A few days later, I found that he had a girlfriend. I invited my sister out, she was visiting from Wisconsin and I wanted to take her out with Coco Lover and myself.

Thank God nothing happened, but still, what was going through this kids mind? We went to a few clubs downtown and soon enough Coco Lover and I were separated, first asking me if I cared if he did a bit of cocaine.

I looked at him, not really sure why he was asking for my permission, and said 'You do you boo'.

Afterwards, he hoped to have a future date and I reluctantly agreed.

Not because I didn't have a great time, but because I wasn't sure about getting involved with a coworker, and I didn't really know if I liked him or if it was merely the idea of him. This fling lasted a few months and honestly was a great time, but there were a few red flags I should have noticed.

A few days later, I found that he had a girlfriend. I invited my sister out, she was visiting from Wisconsin and I wanted to take her out with Coco Lover and myself.

Thank God nothing happened, but still, what was going through this kids mind? We went to a few clubs downtown and soon enough Coco Lover and I were separated, first asking me if I cared if he did a bit of cocaine.

I looked at him, not really sure why he was asking for my permission, and said 'You do you boo'.

Afterwards, he hoped to have a future date and I reluctantly agreed.

Not because I didn't have a great time, but because I wasn't sure about getting involved with a coworker, and I didn't really know if I liked him or if it was merely the idea of him. This fling lasted a few months and honestly was a great time, but there were a few red flags I should have noticed.

He was an Olympic swimmer and the connections he had with my Ironman host dad was not optimal either. Someone interesting to talk to and easy to admire with his baby blue eyes.