Stop dating bad boys the dating guy s2e01

28-Jun-2016 20:40

Since most women want a man to pursue them, it’s really nice when it actually happens.Plus, a bad boy seems like he has drive and purpose, an attractive trait to say the least.He might exhibit the following behavior: lying, aloofness, irresponsible dreaming, fear of commitment, sexual promiscuity, addiction to substances or pornography, selfishness, hunger for power, and disinterest in surrendering to God.(I could go on, but you get the idea.) He’s not someone who’s interested in true love, because that requires consistent sacrifice.Some single Christian women complain that they’re sick of Christian men being too passive and non-adventurous; “nice guys” wait too long to initiate relationships, and they don’t seem to be going anywhere in life. There are a lot of Christian men out there who are too scared of rejection to ask a woman on a date.Or they’re too nervous to follow their dreams or the desires that God has placed in their heart.And it makes sense, really: helping a man “grow up” can play into someone’s sense of significance.If a woman comes from an abusive background, she may not be able to identify someone with good character.

He swore to Cindy that he was just talking with his friends. And he’s too immature and preoccupied with himself to share genuine compassion, concern, or acceptance.

But it’s likely she’ll find that a few months later, his abusive behavior has destroyed her self-esteem and has drained the life out of her.

Bad boys tend to be more assertive than the nice guys.

They view bad boys as projects, or as people they can fix.

A woman might acknowledge that her boyfriend has character flaws, but thinks she can help him mature or overcome his problems.

He swore to Cindy that he was just talking with his friends. And he’s too immature and preoccupied with himself to share genuine compassion, concern, or acceptance.But it’s likely she’ll find that a few months later, his abusive behavior has destroyed her self-esteem and has drained the life out of her.Bad boys tend to be more assertive than the nice guys.They view bad boys as projects, or as people they can fix.A woman might acknowledge that her boyfriend has character flaws, but thinks she can help him mature or overcome his problems. They met at church, and he had many of the qualities she had dreamed of in a man.